Some people are not in control of their emotions, they cry about everything, become depressed when things dont go their way and are very difficult to deal with, over all because you have to be careful about what you say to them.
Then there are those people who are in control of their emotions they do things such as:
1. They don’t look for acceptance through others
They don’t look to be recognised by others or feel worthy when others need them, they accept themselves for who they are and don’t look for others approval.
2. They don’t care what others say about them
If someone tries to bring them down they do not care, because sticks and stones people, sticks and stones.
3. They don’t procrastinate
They don’t sit and whine about why life isn’t working out for them, they go out and do something about it.
4. They do whatever they want to do
If they like ballet they do ballet, if they like painting they paint. Nothing stops them from doing whatever they want or trying out new things
5. They aren’t afraid to speak about their feelings
If you hurt their feelings you will know about it. They are very straight forward about things that they don’t appreciate.
6. They don’t hold gurdges
Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It does good to no one
7. They say no when they have to
They aren’t yes men. It’s okay to say no
8. They think about others
They aren’t selfish and are aware about other around them.
9. They’re careful about who they trust
They don’t let anyone into their lives, they are careful about who they trust and who they get along with
10. They know that happiness depends on them
They don’t let their happiness depend on anyone or anything. Happiness comes from within and they know that.