WEB CHUTNEY

As humans, our natural instinct is to hold ourselves in high regards. We think we are hard workers and good people. But what some of us don’t realise is that we are push overs too. You justify all the work you do and why you do it but at the end of the day you’re a bit of a push over. Can’t believe it? Check these 15 signs out to see if you really are a pushover or not:

1. You’re convinced really REALLY easily

“Hey lets do that thing you don’t want to!”

“Do we have to?”

“Yes!”

“…okay.”

2. To get you to do anything, all a person has to do is ask nicely

“Can you please help me wi..”

“OKAY!”

3. You want to be liked by EVERYONE

4. “Yeah”, “Sure” and “no problem” are the most frequently used words

5. You CAN’T say “NO”. You just can’t

6. If the waiter gets your order wrong you don’t send your food back. You’re just happy to have gotten your food. You will probably thank him for it and give him a tip too!

I hate fish but I’m sure it won’t be thaaat bad…

7. You are that friend who picks and drops everyone when you go out

8. People often come to you for favours

9. You feel guilty asking people for money… THAT THEY OWE YOU!

10. You’re usually the one putting in extra money when the bill comes.

11. Be it a group project or a business assignment, you usually end up doing the bulk of the work

12. “Pata nahi” “Hmm… anything is fine…” “I don’t know” and “Tumhari marzi” are your standard answers when someone asks you where you want to go for food.

13. People feel bad for you and call you bechara/bechari A LOT.

14. If people are mean to you, you will try to kill them… with kindness

15. You’re always helping someone out.

If you can relate to most of these points you are definitely a push over. And if you think that some of them apply to you - you are on the way to becoming a pushover. But if you can’t relate to any of these points and know other people who are pushovers, it is your responsibility to take care of them. They are good people, don’t take advantage of their kindness!!